Seriously grateful for good tires and four wheel drive!
Over the weekend we went to Rick’s Comic City in Donelson. I geeked out a little. We loved it and plan to go back soon.
How did you spend your New Year weekend?
This is the third consecutive year I’ve chosen a theme word for the year. For 2016, my word was BRIGHT. Last year my word was PRESENT.
This year is my year of FAITH. I intend to explore faith in several facets, faith in God, faith in myself, faith in my dreams and goals. I intend to let go and have faith in the journey.
But I also expand that to associate an area of focus with each letter making up the word FAITH.
- F–Forgiveness and Friendship
Forgiveness-I struggle to forgive a specific person who hurt me deeply a few years ago. Her betrayal was real, but I have to learn to let go and forgive her. It’s hard. But I need to do it.
Friendship-I have some people who are friends, but not super close friends. Don’t misunderstand me, my husband is truly my best friend. But, sometimes I miss having a best girlfriend. Actually often. I intend to be a better friend. I intend to invite friends farther into my life, to become closer.
I long to know God is in control. That all things work together for good. I know it in my head, but I long to know it in my heart. I intend to spend much time in prayer about this.
I intend to live in unquestionable integrity in every area of my life.
I intend to spend time on things that are important to me and set aside things that are not. I also intend to manage my time better.
I choose to live in hope, hope for the future, hope for my dreams, hope in my knowledge of God, hope in the journey He’s leading me on.
So, 2018, my year of FAITH. My year of getting back to basics, of refocusing, of becoming my authentic self.
Do you have a theme word or phrase for 2018? What is your focus for this crisp, new year?
Merry Christmas everyone!!! I pray you all have a wonderful, blessed, and meaningful holiday season filled with love. I wish for you a happy new year filled with joy and grace, and may your wildest dreams come true.
I’m back!! I have no idea where this will go. But I’m planning my editorial calendar for 2018. I’m not sure if I’ll post much between now and January 1. But I do have a plan.
So, stay tuned.
And, I really have not given up on my writing goals. They have been adjusted, however.
More on that later.
If you’re still here, thanks. You deserve a prize.
So my personal goals are set for the year. But my writing goals have been in limbo. Until Thursday night, anyway. During my somewhat weekly writing meeting with Kaye I pretty much defined my #2017WritingGoal: I want to have a submission ready manuscript in one year.
Big freaking goal.
But, when I break it down into smaller goals it looks like this:
Still a HUGE FREAKING GOAL. But it’s doable. Not easy by any estimation, but doable. Actionable. Within my control.
Let’s do this. What are your #2017WritingGoals?
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Packed full of intrigue, action, romance, Baron of Godsmere has it all. No one writes medieval romance like Tamara Leigh. The action in this book is at least as fast paced as an international spy thriller. And the romance? Oh my!!! I’m not sure how she does it, but Ms. Leigh writes a toe tingling love scene that is in no way explicit.
My year in books-2016. For a full list, click here.
I read some really, really good books this year. A couple not so great ones, too.
The War That Saved My Life was my favorite read of the year. What a book! One of the best I’ve ever read.
On Friday 11/4 we left the house around 8 am for a surprise day trip Daniel planned. All I knew was we were leaving early, I would be doing some walking, and I should dress comfortably.
We headed down old highway 70. Daniel drove through several quaint little Tennessee towns on our way. Once we got close to the park he finally told me where he was taking me.
I’d always thought Fall Creek Falls was a little park with a waterfall.
I was wrong.
I now consider Fall Creek Falls one of my supreme happy places on earth. It’s that breathtaking.
Every Sunday Kaye posts some questions for reflection on her blog. You can check out today’s post here.
Today’s questions made me think hard about this challenge/project and about what place I want writing to have in my life. So I thought I’d share my answers here.
What are your key responsibilities that cannot be put aside for writing?
- Day job
- Pet care (although I do have help with this-I get home before Daniel so must take the dogs out and feed them-that takes 30-45 minutes as soon as I get home)
- Housework (again, I have help, but Daniel can’t do it all, though he will willingly do more)
What priority does writing take in your life?
Writing is important to me. Has been for years. But for so long it has scared me, so I pushed it to the back of my life even when I said I was working. But now I’ve released all those old expectations. Now I just want to write for the sake of writing. So writing is important to me, but not the most important thing.
What would you be willing to give up, for just 30 days, in order to have more time to write?
- Riding the train (I learned over the summer I don’t write well on the train-my good intentions fail miserably-I often doze off or read on the train)
- Mindless TV watching (you know how you turn on the TV just to have background noise but end up binge watching old episodes of Law and Order SVU that you’ve seen 300 times already instead of doing what you intended to do)
- Getting home from work earlier (so giving up the train would get me home about an hour earlier-tested this out last week-what if I take that hour to sit at Panera close to the hospital and wait for traffic to thin out a bit and write)
What are some obligations and commitments you currently have that you can reprioritize and/or reschedule in order to build more writing time into your daily schedule and give your writing the priority in November?
- Easier meals and/or weekend meal prep
- Write at least two hours per day while we’re on staycation the week of 10/31-that should get me a good head start
One thing I’ve recently realized is that I’m okay if my dream of being a traditionally published novelist never happens. I used to think I would die if that never happened. But I have no control over that. What I can control is my work, my writing. And I’ve realized that writing for its own sake is worthwhile for me. But a haphazard approach is not. Therefore, I’m taking this #FirstDraft60 challenge seriously, putting myself into it, and learning to enjoy the journey instead of looking toward the destination.